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Endings: Possibility for liberation?

7/9/2012

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Recently, looking for inspiration I pulled out my Faeries’ Oracle deck (by Brian Froud and Jessica Macbeth). The faerie cards always bring a smile to my face and a twinkle to my eye. They are beautiful, full of magic and mischief, and always have wisdom and healing to share. They remind me to lighten up and not take myself (or others) too seriously. They inspire me to be true to myself, live a life of love and to play. They connect me to the little girl in me who believed in magic and faeries.

Imagine my surprise when I drew card #53:
Death Card, Faeries' Oracle by Brian Froud and Jessica Macbeth
Death Card & My Aloe Plant
The Death Card:
Natural, timely endings. Release. Liberation.

Ah yes, even the fun, playful faery deck has a death card.

My initial impulse was to pick a fresh card. I had no interest in exploring the death card. I wanted a card that was fun, magical and light.

But isn't that how it goes with death? It's a natural part of life, affects us all, and yet can be hard to look at straight in the eye. It's the big unknown on the other side of the familiar. Once we cross death’s threshold, there’s no turning back.

The death card is often not literal. It can point us to the areas in life where there are natural endings and asks if we are willing to say goodbye, let go and step into what's next.

Is it possible to find release and liberation in death and endings, as the card suggests?

In my experience, holding on to parts of myself that are no longer true, relevant or useful creates feelings of heaviness, restlessness and depression. This is usually a sign for me that something new wants to come forward, but there's no space for it with my current structures and beliefs. This tension invites me to let go of the unnecessary and step into a fuller version of myself. When I have the courage to acknowledge the endings, to close the door on the old, I experience excitement as I step towards what's next.

What is coming to an end in your life? What needs to be released for you to live more fully and freely?

If you're not sure: center yourself and ask, "What core attitude/belief/relationship am I holding that is preventing me from fully embodying my essence?" Adjust the question, as needed, so it feels appropriate for you.

Listen for the answer to come, knowing that the perfect answer will arrive, even if it surprises you.

Once the belief is identified, some simple ways to let go:
  • Say goodbye with intention: acknowledge what this belief/relationship/way of being, etc has brought into your life, identify the challenge and gifts it has presented you. After the acknowledgments, as you're ready, say goodbye.
  • Offering to the elements: Meditate on what you're ready to let go of; create a compostable talisman or representation of the issue (i.e. a drawing, some writing about it, a representation made from natural elements). If you're clear you want to let go of it now, offer it to fire. Fire is very now and immediate - be sure you're ready for it! You may also offer it to Earth and find a place to bury it or offer it to Water and find a place to release it (i.e. the ocean). Both of these elements are slower in action.
  • Creative visualization: Take a deep breath and allow your awareness to drop to your heart. Take a breath into your heart and create a clear image of yourself in a room with the issue as it is in your life now. Allow it to be present, with all the gifts it brought you, the challenges it presented you. Really allow yourself to feel it. Thank the issue for all it brought to you. In the room is a door. Walk toward the door, and with every step feel yourself leaving the issue further and further behind, as you walk to what awaits you on the other side of the door. When you find yourself at the door, slowly turn the knob, open the door, and with intention cross over to the new space and shut the door behind you. Slowly take in what is around you. It may come in a sound, felt sense or image. When you're complete, wiggle your fingers and toes and gently come back to where you physical body is. 

When we learn how to meet endings with more grace and less resistance, we'll be able to face all aspects of life with openness and curiosity.

May we all have the courage to let go of what is no longer needed, step into the unknown and embody our heart's calling.

6 Comments
Karen
7/10/2012 09:20:35 pm

As I asked myself the question, I wanted to close my computer, telling myself that I needed to get ready for work and that deep introspective time was needed-escape! Your simple 3 options allowed me to focus, take a deep breath, accept and close the door on the part of me that viewed myself as chubby, whiny, needy, small, and no longer of service to my vocation and personal life. In reality I am medium-sized in habitus with a resilient middle-aged body, gentle, fun, compassionate, and autonomous, offering love, skills, and knowledge in service of guiding others as they explore inner wisdom, healing, and the beauty and power of who they are. Wow! That took 14 minutes. It was *easy*. NOW, I can close the laptop and get ready for the day. Thank you, Eleni!

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Eleni
7/12/2012 08:15:55 am

Karen - thank you so much for sharing your process. It is a beautiful and powerful share. What a wonderful way to start the day - with intention and clarity of who you are. Beautiful!

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Beth
7/12/2012 11:46:54 am

Wow-this could not be more timely for me as I prepare for a huge transition in my life as my son goes off to school. Thanks for giving me some ideas on how to embrace this new phase of my life!

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Eleni Livitsanos
7/12/2012 04:11:16 pm

Beth - thanks so much for your comment. I'm glad these are helpful ideas for you and hope you find a way to honor (and embrace!) this big life transition. Big hugs from SF!

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Jessica Macbeth link
2/21/2019 05:25:12 am

Thank you for sharing this wonderful meditation of the Death card. I especially valued the section on creative ways to let go. Now I'll go speak to Death for awhile!

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Eleni
2/22/2019 07:31:42 pm

Jessica! Thanks so much for your comment. I hope your exploration with Death was revealing. be well!

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